I can’t stand my kids father! After almost six years of divorce he recently posted a video of me on Youtube that he believes will hurt me. He even included pictures of our children! He has a wife and another child and I can’t understand why he won’t move on with his life. To make a public video about me and to frame it as if I’m keeping the kids away from him is too much. I’m convinced that some men enjoy bashing the court system and making it seem like they pay child support or don’t see their kids because of the “system” or making it seem like the mother is keeping them away. At some point the person becomes toxic and you still have to deal with them because of kids, but when is enough, enough? Men and women who are not responsible for their children need to start being honest with themselves. Anyways, I’m enrolling back in therapy after this nonsense I had to deal with.